Take my daughter for example. I spent ten years listening to the trauma she endured when I missed her Chanukah play in second grade. She does not remember how I rearranged my whole life practically to take my first ever vacation to Eretz Yisroel since I am married so that my flight would leave only the afternoon after her play. She does not remember how her Chanukah play was cancelled because of a random snowstorm. She does not remember how I fr …

Happiness and The Twelve Steps "Happiness is an imaginary condition, formerly attributed by the living to the dead, now usually attributed by adults to children and by children to adults." - Dr. Thomas Szasz, Professor of Psychiatry at the State University of New York Upstate Medical University in Syracuse “Perhaps only 20 percent of Americans are happy” - Dennis Wholey, author ofAre You Happy?  6 weeks before he died, a reporte …