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All the Resources of a Superpower Kiddushin 4 Psychology of the Daf Yomi
Our Gemara on Amud Beis tells us that the Hebrew word קִיחָה “Kicha” connotes acquisition to purchase, and not merely the acquisition of an ownerless object.
Be’er Mayyim Chaim (Shemos 2:3) notes that the same Hebrew word is used when Yocheved “took” a reed basket to hide the baby Moshe. His understanding is that she acquired it via payment, much as we have a custom to make sure to acquire a Lulav or Hadass via payment instead of merely acquiring it from public property. The concern is that it might still possibly be owned by somebody, and then it would be a mitzvah accomplished through a sin, namely the sin of theft.
Similarly, Yocheved wanted to ensure that the salvation of Moshe, who would eventually be the savior of the Jewish people, was a pure Mitzvah, without any possibility of the entanglement of the sin of theft. She therefore purchased the reed basket.
What I find remarkable about this interpretation is how it showcases the indomitable spirit of a person under severe persecution and oppression. This reminds me of people who baked matzah or lit Hanukkah candles in concentration camps. Obviously, most did not, and they certainly were exempt. I think we would be grossly underestimating their mindset to think that in their minds they were making a sacrifice. Quite the contrary, I believe they felt it was a privilege and an honor; maintaining their own sense of freedom and individual integrity in the midst of the most trying of circumstances.
Nathan Sharansky said, "They tried their best to find a place where I was isolated. But all the resources of a superpower cannot isolate the man who hears a voice of freedom, a voice I heard from the very chamber of my soul."
Translations Courtesy of Sefaria, except when, sometimes, I disagree with the translation
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Rabbi Simcha Feuerman, Rabbi Simcha Feuerman, LCSW-R, LMFT, DHL is a psychotherapist who works with high conflict couples and families. He can be reached via email at simchafeuerman@gmail.com