Funny how the need for an outlet
has been twisted and turned
into the need for an escape
When often what we need
when we say we need an outlet
is an inlet
a connection
a way in
to ourselves
to others
But instead of looking in
or up
we look away
and we find what we think we need
to let off steam
with semi-conductors
substances without substance.
Sad, really
when all we need
is to plug in
to ground ourselves
at the patiently waiting outlet
which is unkindly blocked
by what we have filled it with
 
Clean out the excess
bleed what’s impeding
the outlet still works
even with the resistance.
But it works better, of course
when it’s used as intended
Funny how objects operate best
when used according to the manufacturer’s instructions

Shimmy Feintuch, LCSW CASAC-G maintains a private practice in Brooklyn, NY, and Washington Heights, NYC, with specialties in addictions and anxiety. He is also an Adjunct Professor at the Wurzweiler School of Social Work at Yeshiva University. Contact: (530) 334-6882 or shimmyfeintuch@gmail.com. 

 

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