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Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T. Clinical reflections on the Parasha through a psychotherapist lens. Using Artificial intelligence writing for defining clinical ideas and weekly Parasha study to cultivate thought provoking weekly insights.
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The Divine Blueprint: Executive Planning (Parshat Vayakhel)
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
March 7th, 2024

  Parshat Vayakhel focuses on Moshe Rabeynu addressing Bnei Yisrael as he provides them with the instructions, given in the previous Parshot, related to constructing the Mishkan. In describing the items created for the Mishkan, what becomes clear is that the more important items were left to be created last. The Parsha describes how after the structure was completed then the Ark, Cover, Table, and Menorah were made. As we reflect on the proc …
Self-Actualizing Holiness (Kedoshim)
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
May 10th, 2024

In Parshat Kedoshim we encounter a profound commandment, which has reverberating impact through out all our daily lives. The passuk states “kedoshim tihyu ki kadosh ani – you shall be holy, for I am holy (Leviticus 19:3). ”  the word Kedoshim, which has the Hebrew root word kadosh – usually translated as “holy.” However, the word has a more appropriate definition described by Rashi of separation or setting …
Kiddush Hashem & Moral Identity Fusion (Parshat Emor)
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
May 16th, 2024

In Parshat Emor, we encounter various commandments regarding sanctification, sacrifices and observance of the holidays. However, one of the seminal tenants of Judaism and morality is also presented, the mitzvah of not desecrating the name of Hashem. Through the lens of the psychological concept of moral identity fusion, we are provided a meaningful opportunity to explore this mitzvah, better known as Kiddush Hashem.   Moral identify fusion i …
When the Body Speaks (Parshat Tazria)
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
May 1st, 2025

In Parshat Tazria, we learn about the concept of ‘Tzaraat,’ often mistranslated as leprosy. However, Tzaraat is not merely a physical affliction, but a visible manifestation of a spiritual malady.  Although Tzaraat was an affliction of the skin and the person afflicted would be isolated, unlike leprosy, the isolation of the Metzora (one who had Tzaraat) had nothing to do with contagion. This spiritual affliction portrayed by a ph …
Choice over Victimhood (Parshat Bechukotai)
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
May 22nd, 2025

In Parshat Bechukotai we encounter the powerful description of the blessings and curses associated with following or violating Hashem’s mitzvot. Seemingly the torah provides a clear choice: follow in Hashem’s way leading to peace, happiness, and salvation or disobey leading to anguish, suffering, and exile. This parsha provides us an opportunity to explore the psychological concept of learned helplessness, which often created a victim …
Finding Greatness in Humility: Balanced Self-Perception (Parshat Behar)
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
May 23rd, 2024

In Parshat Behar, we encounter the commandments to observe the Shemita and Yovel years, which emphasize the importance of balance and harmony in the land, society, and personal relationships. The parsha begins by sharing the location of the conversation between Hashem and Moshe Rabeynu, being Har Sinai. Using the psychological concept of having a balanced self-perception, we can delve into the lessons learned through the selection of this mountai …
Adapting in the Desert: A Blueprint from Bamidbar (Parshat Bamidbar)
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
May 30th, 2025

Parshat Bamidbar, the first parsha of the new sefer, often read right before Shavout, sets the stage for Bnei Yisrael’s journey through the Midbar – the desert, wilderness. Bamidbar opens not only a journey through space, but a journey through self—a psychological training ground for adaptability. The Mechilta (Yitro: Bachodesh 1) shares the connection between the Parsha and upcoming celebration of Matan Torah being juxtaposed a …
Choice over Victimhood
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
May 31st, 2024

In Parshat Bechukotai we encounter the powerful description of the blessings and curses associated with following or violating Hashem’s mitzvot. Seemingly the torah provides a clear choice: follow in Hashem’s way leading to peace, happiness, and salvation or disobey leading to anguish, suffering, and exile. This parsha provides us an opportunity to explore the psychological concept of learned helplessness, which often created a victim …
Catharsis of the Soul (Acharei Mot)
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
May 3rd, 2024

Parshat Acharei Mot contains profound insights into the human experience, including the psychological concept of catharsis. This Parsha delves into the rituals of atonement performed by the Kohen Gadol on Yom Kippur, the holiest day of the year. Amidst the detailed instructions for sacrifice and purification, there lies a powerful lesson about the cathartic nature of confession and atonement.   The parsha describes (Leviticus 16:5-11) how th …
The Weight of the Word: Atonement, Confession, and the Healing of the Soul (Parshat Acharei Mot)
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
May 9th, 2025

Parshat Acharei Mot contains profound insights into the human experience, including the psychological concept of catharsis. This Parsha delves into the rituals of atonement performed by the Kohen Gadol on Yom Kippur, the holiest day of the year. Amidst the detailed instructions for sacrifice and purification, there lies a powerful lesson about the cathartic nature of confession and atonement. True atonement begins not with the mouth, but with the …
Unbreakable Ties: Exploring Parental Bonds (Parshat Vayera)
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
November 14th, 2024

    Parshat Vayera provides us with a continuation of the story of Avraham on his path to becoming the ultimate patriarch of the Jewish nation. As described in the Amidah, while we channel all the Avot in the first Bracha, we end by singling out Avraham. Rambam in the previous parsha citing a Medresh Tanchuma introduced us to the concept of “Maaseh Avot Siman L'banim - Whatever has happened to the patriarchs is a sign to the child …
The Art of Loving (Parshat Chayei Sara)
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
November 14th, 2025

Parshat Chayei Sara is often pointed to as the Parsha of Shidduchim, match matching, however it can offer us a powerful insight into the importance of cultivating love. One of the central themes in this parsha is the concept of love and partnership. The marriage between Yitzchak and Rivka provides us with wonderful insights to apply to our own loving relationships.
The passuk says “Vayyikkach et-rivkah vattehi-lo le'ishah vayye'ehaveha - an …
A Nation Born of Delayed Gratification (Parshat Toldot)
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
November 16th, 2023

Parshat Toldot offers a fascinating opportunity to explore the psychological concept of delayed gratification, a concept that is central to human behavior and personal development. In this Parsha, we find a compelling example of delayed gratification through Yaacov, who ultimately becomes the third and most accomplished of the Avot.   The story of the Parsha primarily focuses on the struggle between Yaacov and Esav, two very different brothe …
Building a Nation Through Delayed Gratification (Parshat Toldot)
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November 20th, 2025

Parshat Toldot offers a fascinating opportunity to explore the psychological concept of delayed gratification, a concept that is central to human behavior and personal development. In this Parsha, we find a compelling example of delayed gratification through Yaacov, who ultimately becomes the third and most accomplished of the Avot.
The story of the Parsha primarily focuses on the struggle between Yaacov and Esav, two very different brothers. …
Marriage and Love (Parshat Chayei Sara)
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
November 21st, 2024

Parshat Chayei Sara is often pointed to as the Parsha of Shidduchim, match matching, however it can offer us a powerful insight into the importance of cultivating love. One of the central themes in this parsha is the concept of love and partnership. The marriage between Yitzchak and Rivka provides us with wonderful insights to apply to our own loving relationships.   The passuk says “Vayyikkach et-rivkah vattehi-lo le'ishah vayye'ehave …
Vision & Purpose (Parshat Vayeitzei)
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
November 24th, 2023

In Parshat Vayeitzei we embark on the profound journey of Yaakov Avinu, a path that not only that not only traverses physical landscapes but provides depth into human psyche. At the heart of the Parsha lies the theme of vision and purpose, two psychological concepts that guide Yaakov’s path and offer timeless lessons for ours.   Helen Keller once wrote, “The only thing worse than being blind is having sight but no vision.” …
A Nation Born from Delayed Gratification (Parshat Toldot)
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
November 27th, 2024

Parshat Toldot offers a fascinating opportunity to explore the psychological concept of delayed gratification, a quality that is central to behavior and personal development. In this Parsha, we find a compelling example of delayed gratification through Yaacov, who ultimately becomes the third of the Avot and father to all 12 Shevatim.   The story of the Parsha primarily focuses on the struggle between Yaacov and Esav, two very different brot …
Unbreakable Ties: Exploring Parental Bonds (Parshat Vayera)
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
November 2nd, 2023

Parshat Vayera provides us with a continuation of the story of Avraham on his path to becoming the ultimate patriarch of the Jewish nation. As described in the Amidah, while we channel all the Avot in the first Bracha, but we end by singling out Avraham. Rambam in the previous parsha citing a Medresh Tanchuma introduced us to the concept of “Maaseh Avot Siman L'banim - Whatever has happened to the patriarchs is a sign to the children.&rdquo …
Confronting the Esav Within (Vayishlach)
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
November 30th, 2023

In Parshat Vayishlach, we witness Yaacov Avinu’s dramatic encounter with his brother Esav after years of separation. As Yaacov faces the impending meeting with Esav, the Parasha takes an unexpected turn - Yaacov finds himself in a wrestling match with a mysterious figure, described as the angel of Esav. The struggle is intense, and as dawn approaches, the figure touches Yaacov’s hip, leaving him with a permanent limp. Despite the toll …
Attitude of Gratitude (Parshat Lech Lecha)
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
November 6th, 2024

Parasha Lech Lecha begins the story of the birth of Bnei Yisrael. While many of us are familiar with the quality of ‘Chesed’ – ‘Loving kindness’ being directly associated with Avraham Avinu, one of his key qualities that is understated is one of his ability to show gratitude. The Parsha provides us with keen insight into the psychological concept of cultivating an attitude of gratitude. The beginning of the Parsha st …
Avraham as Father: A Model for Our Children (Parshat Vayera)
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
November 7th, 2025

Parshat Vayera provides us with a continuation of the story of Avraham on his path to becoming the ultimate patriarch of the Jewish nation. As described in the Amidah, while we channel all the Avot in the first Bracha, we end by singling out Avraham. Rambam, in the previous parsha citing a Medresh Tanchuma, introduced us to the concept of “Maaseh Avot Siman L'banim – Whatever has happened to the patriarchs is a sign to the children.” Avraha …
Marriage and Love (Chayei Sara)
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
November 8th, 2023

Parshat Chayei Sara is often pointed to as the Parsha of Shidduchim, match matching, however it can offer us a powerful insight into the importance of cultivating love. One of the central themes in this parsha is the concept of love and partnership. The marriage between Yitzchak and Rivka provides us with wonderful insights to apply to our own loving relationships.   The passuk says “Vayyikkach et-rivkah vattehi-lo le'ishah vayye'ehave …
Interconnectedness in the Beginning
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
October 13th, 2023

This week we begin Parshat Bereshit, the inaugural Torah portion. During a week where many of us have felt our hearts physically in one place but emotionally in another place with our fellow Bnei Yisrael in Aretz Yisrael, the Parsha invites us to delve into the profound interplay of interconnectedness, both within the natural world and within ourselves as human beings. The brutality of the terrorist events in Aretz Yisrael have affected us all du …
Family Dynamics
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
October 19th, 2023

Parshat Noach delves into the story of Noah and the great flood. The central focus of the parsha is the family of Noah, who, together with his wife, three sons, and their wives, survive the deluge aboard the ark. This tight-knit family of eight navigate the challenges of confinement and isolation during their time on the ark, offering us profound insights into familial interactions and their psychological dynamics.   Family dynamics refer to …
Weathering the Storm: What Noach Teaches About Family Resilience (Parshat Noach)
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October 24th, 2025

Every family faces its own storms, moments of chaos, uncertainty, and pressure that test the bonds holding us together. In Parshat Noach, we encounter not only the story of a great flood but the story of a family that had to survive it, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. How did Noach and his family weather their storm, and what can we learn from them about family resilience? This tight-knit family of eight navigate the challenges of confi …
Attitude of Gratitude
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
October 29th, 2023

Parasha Lech Lecha begins the story of the birth of Bnei Yisrael. While many of us are familiar with the quality of ‘Chesed’ – Loving kindness being directly associated with Avraham, one of his key qualities that is understated is one of his ability to show gratitude. The Parsha provides us with keen insight into the psychological concept of cultivating an attitude of gratitude.   The beginning of the Parsha states: “ …
Harvesting Joy: Exploring Sukkot and the Psychology of Happiness
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
October 2nd, 2023

As Yom Kippur comes to a close, we are quickly ushered into the Chag of Sukkot. There is a mitzvah to rejoice on all of the holidays, yet there is special emphasis on being joyful during Sukkot. The Yalkut Shimoni highlights that the Torah commands us to rejoice on Sukkot three times (as opposed to Shavuot, when we are commanded once, and Pesach, when we are not explicitly commanded to rejoice). Furthermore, in our holiday prayers, each holiday i …
Family Dynamics (Parshat Noach)
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
October 31st, 2024

Parshat Noach delves into the story of Noah and the great flood. The central focus of the parsha is the family of Noah, who, together with his wife, three sons, and their wives, survive the deluge aboard the ark. This tight-knit family of eight navigate the challenges of confinement and isolation during their time on the ark, offering us profound insights into familial interactions and their psychological dynamics.   Family dynamics refer to …
A Grateful Heart (Parshat Lech Lecha)
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
October 31st, 2025

Parasha Lech Lecha begins the story of the birth of Bnei Yisrael. While many of us are familiar with the quality of ‘Chesed’ – ‘Loving kindness’ being directly associated with Avraham Avinu, one of his key qualities that is understated is one of his ability to show gratitude. The Parsha provides us with keen insight into the psychological concept of cultivating an attitude of gratitude. The beginning of the Parsha states: “And the Lor …
From Covenant to Confidence: Cultivating Inner Strength (Parashat Ki Tavo)
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
September 11th, 2025

Parshat Ki Tavo spells out the blessings and curses first introduced earlier in Sefer Devarim, prior to Bnei Yisrael’s entry into Eretz Yisrael. As the Parasha ends, Moshe Rabeiynu imparts a message of empowerment to the Bnei Yisrael, reminding them of their ability to uphold the covenant and follow the commandments. He instills in them the belief that they have the skills and strength to overcome challenges, emphasizing the power of focused, p …
A Path to Redemption: Tips from Addiction Treatment
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
September 13th, 2023

Azarat Yemi Teshuva  During Azarat Yemi Teshuva, we engage in deep introspection, reflection, and repentance, seeking forgiveness for our sins and striving to improve ourselves in the eyes of Hashem. The concept of Teshuva, or repentance, is central to these ten days. It reminds us that we are not defined by our past mistakes; instead, we have the power to change and grow. The process of Teshuva involves acknowledging our wrongdoing, feeling …
Overcoming the Bystander Effect (Parshat Ki Teitzei)
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
September 13th, 2024

In Parshat Ki Teitzei we encounter various laws and ethical guidelines that address our responsibilities towards others. In the second perek of the parsha Moshe Rabeynu expresses, “lo-tireh et-shor aḥícha o et-seyo niddaḥím vehit'allamta mehem hashev teshívem leaḥícha” – “If you see your fellow Israelite’s ox or sheep gone astray, do not ignore it; you must take it back to your peer& …
Standing Together: Mutual Responsibility Before the Day of Judgment (Parashat Nitzavim)
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
September 19th, 2025

As we approach Rosh Hashana, it is not enough to focus only on our relationship with Hashem; we must also inspect and strengthen our bein adam lechaveiro relationships, for how we treat others is inseparable from how we stand before the Ribbono Shel Olam. In Parshat Nitzavim we encounter the concept of mutual responsibility, which holds profound psychological significance pertaining to collective wellbeing. Moshe gathers the entire nation for his …
Empowerment through Self-Efficacy (Parshat Ki Tavo)
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
September 20th, 2024

Parshat Ki Tavo spells out the blessings and curses first introduced earlier in Sefer Devarim prior to Bnei Yisrael’s entry into Ertz Yisrael. As the Parasha ends, Moshe Rabeiynu imparts a message of empowerment to the Bnei Yisrael, reminding them of their ability to uphold the covenant and follow the commandments. He instills in them the belief that they possess the necessary skills and strength to overcome challenges by focusing on positi …
Unity Through Mutual Responsibility
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
September 27th, 2024

In Parshat Nitzavim we encounter the concept of mutual responsibility, which holds profound psychological significance pertaining to collective wellbeing. Moshe gathers the entire nation for his final address to renew our covenant with Hashem. Mutual responsibility teaches us that we are connected. Regardless of background, status, or personal journey, every individual is united in this pivotal moment, forming a collective covenant.   The fi …
Nitzavim: Unity Through Mutual Responsibility
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
September 6th, 2023

In Parshat Nitzavim we encounter the concept of mutual responsibility, which holds profound psychological significance pertaining to collective wellbeing. Moshe gathers the entire nation for his final address to renew our covenant with Hashem. Mutual responsibility teaches us that we are connected. Regardless of background, status, or personal journey, every individual is united in this pivotal moment, forming a collective covenant.   The fi …
Favorable Judgement (Parshat Shoftim)
Author: Elan Javanfard, L.M.F.T.
September 6th, 2024

In Parshat Shoftim we learn about the establishment of a just society, through the appointment of judges and officers. While the Torah discusses the importance of impartial judgment in legal matters, it also subtly emphasizes the value of judging ourselves and others favorably on a psychological and interpersonal level. It is fitting that my Bar Mitzvah Parasha, which always falls around my birthday of Rosh Chodesh Elul, deals with judgement. No …
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